Ryan and Krystal both know what it is to have a deep faith in God, believing that he has a plan for their lives and that together they are better than apart. (A lot of you got a kick out of their unique engagement session last year, and to say that they are full of life is an understatement.) The theme of their wedding was “the puzzle” for the very reason that everything that happens in life is a piece of what makes you who you are, even though some pieces take longer to find than others. They knew when they found each other that they had each found a very important piece their life’s puzzle and that they fit together well.

Thank you, Ryan and Krystal, for allowing us the privilege of being part of your big day! We’ve appreciated getting to know you better as a couple this past year, and have enjoyed the friendship that’s developed. You two are dynamite together, and we know you’ll do great things! God bless… R&J

PS…. if you live in the Iowa City/Coralville area, and you appreciate a great massage, Krystal is best around (in our opinion)! Check out :Krystalee Massage Therapy in Coralville.

First of all, we would like to thank each of you for the prayers and support, for both Jodi and I and the family of our friends in the wake of my previous post.  It’s incredible to see people banding together to encourage and lift up those in need… even if you might not know them.  God, if only it were like this all the time, not just in tragedy, we’d be a much different generation. There is so much that could be different. So, thank you again to those who sent notes of encouragement, shared the post with friends, and prayed… you made a difference in our’s and the Murray’s kids lives and we appreciate it.

This past week was a difficult week for our community, but what has come of it is an incredible testimony to the power of grace, and a town that comes together. Our priorities have been once again shaken up, and we’re realizing the importance of friendships and family, and how little we communicate how much people mean to us.

Life is a Gift.

It’s why we are passionate about photography. It’s why we love to celebrate with families, as they have babies… grow them up… graduate them… give them in marriage… and the process begins again.

Last weekend, at our photography convention, we entered the following image for competition.  It’s our most recent family photo we created for our New Year’s cards, and it’s simply titled “Life is a Gift” because it’s little moments like “horsey back rides” and “airplane rides” that make family life amazing.  Little choices, little sacrifices made along the way that culminate into creating who we are, and who our kids will become.  Today, we are grateful for the gift of Life, and hope that you are too!

So, go ahead, hug your friends. Tell them you love them… appreciate them for who they are, and the fact that they hang out with your crazy self and put up with your kids. :)

Goodbye’s suck.

And I hate both of those words.

This past weekend, we were at our State Photography convention and got the shock of our short lives with the call that two close friends, Mick and Julie, had lost their lives in an accident. Actually, great friends doesn’t seem to do justice to our relationship.  They were life mentors, spiritual leaders, encouragers, and partners in ministry.

So, in the only way we know how, with images and words, we’d like to take this space… this blog that Mick frequented so often… to celebrate two of the most amazing people to ever grace this planet.

I’ve tried 100 times to put into words the way I feel. The pain is like waves on the shore… pounding for a moment, then easing up, then pounding again. It creeps up unexpectedly like a breeze, then disappears as quickly as it came. Then I stop and remember that I’m not the only one hurting around here. There are four dear children who’s grief will continue far longer than mine… in far more corners of their hearts than mine. There is Kalona Mennonite Church where Mick was co-pastor, youth pastor, Sunday School teacher and more. There is the school where his children attend, and where he and Julie were very involved. There are the countless people touched by their lives in one way or another.

I moved to Iowa in March 2001, married Jodi in June, and in September we started going to KMC. We officially met Mick and Julie a few weeks later and began ministry together in a way that was over both of our heads. He was so good at keeping me grounded… checking my motives… checking my role, my marriage, and my faith. Over the past 10 years, we praised together, failed together, trusted together, and prayed a lot. He was one of the few people in my life who wasn’t afraid to call me out when I was out of line, and I will forever hear his voice saying “are you spiritually in the right place to make that decision?” We learned valuable wisdom and insight from him and Julie in many areas of life, and to this day there are little things that we do that were because of something he said.

When it came to my role as worship leader, he was my biggest fan, but it had little to do with the music. He was always encouraging and supportive, even when I’m sure I pushed his buttons/limits with my youthful ambition. I’ll also never forget the way he went to battle for me when I was pursuing a vocational position in the church. He fought tooth and nail and was just as disappointed as I was when it didn’t work out… although he would keep telling me that God was up to something. And, when things got rough or I wasn’t sure which way was up or down, he would throw these three words at me that drove me crazy every time… “Hang in there.” Well, buddy, I’m taking those words to heart now.

Almost a year ago, Jodi and I made the difficult decision to attend a different church. I knew it hurt Mick and Julie to see us leave, but they were genuinely happy for what God was going to do in us. I can still see his face, eyes red with tears, as he came up on stage and gave me a hug that last morning I led worship at KMC, as we realized that our ten years of ministry together were coming to an end. There were no words, just a hug as we both knew what the other was thinking. But, there was no way we could have seen how final that would be less than a year later. But that’s not entirely true. The truth is, I’m still in ministry with Mick… I will always be. Because his ministry was and is the Gospel and that will never come to an end… there will never be a “last time”.

I know our life is different because of Mick and Julie. I know we are better people because of their godly example. I know that their children carry the same spirit, the same faith that they did, and that there is hope in all the grief.  If anyone ever was an example of what a true Christian is, it would be Mick and Julie.

Please pray for their children. They have shown incredible resilience, and have faith equal to that of their parents. It’s insane. They are going around looking for people to comfort. It’s a tremendous testimony of God’s peace and grace in their lives.

Mick and Julie… you leave holes all over this community, but you also leave a legacy of faithfulness and obedience to the calling of Christ on your lives. We’re all better for having known you.

To their children… our hearts ache for you, and we stand with you in your loss. We continually lift you up in prayer, and believe with you in the hope of what is unseen. Your mom and dad would be so proud of you guys, and how you’re handling everything. Your faith puts us all to shame. Keep looking to Jesus for your strength and know that He’ll never run out of grace for you.  We love you guys!

You see, folks, it’s not the awards we win that matter. It’s not the stupid little games we play in politics, and pretending to be religious that matter. What matters is relationships. What matters is if you were suddenly removed from this world, what would be the impact? Would anyone miss you? Jodi posted on her Facebook wall yesterday “Selfish people are rarely missed” and it’s true.  When is the last time you looked at your close friends and told them you appreciate their friendship? When did you hug them and say “thanks for being my friend?” We take so much for granted in this world, and friendships often get it the worst.

I was scheduled to have breakfast with Mick on Friday. We couldn’t find a suitable time to meet, so we postponed until today. Well, the next day he was gone.  Would I love to have that moment back? Absolutely. But for reasons I don’t know, God didn’t allow us to meet that morning and maybe that gave Mick a couple extra hours with his family.

And lastly… I know not everyone is on the same page with Jodi and I when it comes to religion (that is believing Jesus Christ is who he said he was), but that is the ultimate relationship that needs to be fostered every day. Tomorrow it could be us that disappear from the planet. Maybe this is my last post. Who knows. But the goal is to be as ready to go as Mick and Julie were. They had peace with everyone around them. There were no enemies. There isn’t a person in our community that didn’t like them.  But they were more than just “good people”…. they were alive! Inside and out.

Will I leave that kind of impact? Will you?

Keep these dear children in your prayers that God would protect their hearts and minds over the coming days and months and years as they adjust and attempt to move forward.

Our November and December usually finds us cramming in Christmas card orders and gift prints, and the blog gets left in the dust. So, here is a collection of family and children’s sessions we were working on this past Fall.  We are so grateful to each one for trusting us with these precious moments in their lives! It’s an honor!

“Adam and Courtney…

You two are engaging and fun, with just a touch of silly… an awesome combination! ;) You have a great example of a solid relationship, one that has roots. It’s been great getting to know you both, and we look forward to the big day in July!”

Happy New Year!

Weston and Emily live in New York, but made their way back to Iowa along with their lovable pooch Charlie, for an incredible October wedding.  From start to finish, everything seemed scripted to tell the story of their lives and their love for each other, from the details in the barn, to their personal and unique vows they shared with each other. You can check it all out in the Motion Picture below the images!

Many thanks to Shannon Murphey at The Celebration Farm for helping to make this day memorable for Wes and Emily, and being an amazing host.

And here is their Motion Picture!

I realize it’s been a little while since I’ve posted, and it’s good to be back.  We’ve been working with a lot of families lately, getting things together for Christmas cards and such, so I don’t like to post their family pictures until the cards are sent out.  It at least appears to Jodi and I that it would spoil the fun if we’d show the images before the cards are delivered. All that to say, we’ll be getting back into the weekly posting now that Christmas cards are pretty much coming to a close.

Anyway, here’s a fun family session from a few weeks ago.  They were guests at a wedding we photographed this summer, and it always an honor have families referring our work to each other.

Krystal and Ryan are two of the coolest people we know, and a wonderful match for each other.  Krystal is a dear friend of ours for many years now, and we were thrilled to be asked to photograph their wedding early next year. We’ve worked with a lot of couples this year with some cool stories of how they met, or were engaged, but this one is unlike any other.  You’ll see what I mean.

SO, HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

“I, Krystal, was at the Younkers department store shopping.  It was one of those days where I just couldn’t decide on anything. I’d find two items I liked but couldn’t decide between the two. I know some people would have just thrown both in the cart and figured it out later, but I wasn’t in the mood to spend a lot and have to return half of it later. So, there I stood with yet another top in hand, holding it up to the mirror trying to make up my mind when….”

“I, Ryan, was on a mission to pick up some new cologne, and when I pulled into the mall, the store with the closest parking spot to the front door was Younkers, so in I went. Straight to the goods, I knew what I was looking for. As I stepped up to the counter I blanked and couldn’t remember what my empty cologne was called, but I knew what color the bottle was, so I grabbed the two brands with black labels and sprayed them into the air knowing I would recognize the smell easily.

That was when I saw her through the faint haze of cologne.

She was holding up two shirts to a mirror with a lost look on her face, and although it wasn’t like me at all, I put down the spray bottle and walked right up to her, my heart pounding. The first thing that came out of my mouth was ‘Baby, it doesn’t matter which you choose… you’ll look amazing in either one!’”

“I, Krystal, was amazed at the boldness…. and tacky sweetness…. of this guy. I laughed nervously and said ‘Thank you!’, grinning from ear to ear.  He then introduced himself, and we ended up talking for about an hour. Before we went our separate ways, I gave him my phone number and the rest is history!”

…. Or is it?

Images first. The rest of story comes after.

Now for the twist in the story!

The above is Ryan and Krystal’s story… but isn’t true. Not one word.

Here’s the truth:  Ryan and Krystal met on eHarmony.com.  However, one particular time when someone asked them how they met, Ryan just blurted out that they met at Younkers, and on the spot fabricated the above story. Krystal stood there, wondering what had gotten in to him and where it was going, but as he went on, she jumped right in and added her own details of the day, together formulating what has eventually become the story they now tell to everyone who asks!

***Special thanks to Matt at Younkers for letting us work in the store!

We’re proud to call the Bishop Family some of our newest friends! We met them through our church, and have been truly blessed by their lives. They have been working overseas and came home this summer for the birth of little Zephie!   They are headed back in a couple of weeks, and while we’re a little bummed we won’t get to hang out with them, we are super excited about what they are doing.

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Emily is a senior at a local high school, and we were honored to create some images of this memorable time of life for her and her family!  We always appreciate and enjoy families who send multiple children our way, and Emily is the second one from her family to be a GP Senior!  That officially qualifies her as awesome. :)

“Emily, we wish you the best as you pursue your future…God bless in all you do!”